Husband Depressed

Few days ago I posted that I want a house. It almost happened. Last week we viewed a house that is right for us. The problem is the travel time for me to work is 45 minutes to one hour. Also kids need to continue this school year up to December where they need to travel same route as me. Husband said that we can do it. So i said yes. The house is so lovely - 4 bedrooms, 2 living rooms, an open space kitchen, dining and family room. To add it up the master's have en suite with a spa and a walk in wardrobe for me. It is like a holiday house. But after a long discussion we decided that it's not for us. Then the following day my husband changed his mind again but it was already gone to the next offer after us. Now, he is depressed and not talking to me. It's not my fault!!!